I think: A) it's a boy & B) as evelyb30 said, not necessarily a mourning piece. Lock of hair could be a memento of first time those curls were...
There really isn't one. She's a transitional form, not quite a classic Flora, not yet modernized to the corsage-wearing beauty of the 1920s-30s,...
If the pin pops open slightly when released from the catch, as I think it does, very well made, anywhere 1880 - 1920.
Wonder whether the snowflake on the bottom constitutes a kind of signature? [IMG]
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